People generally tend
to share their moments of happiness and
sorrow. They are happy
when they become wealthy. They will be
joyous when promoted at work, content when
they recover from
illness, and cheerful
when the world smiles at them and fulfils their
dreams.
Likewise,
they all grieve over illness, disgrace and loss of
wealth. Knowing this to
be the case, let us look for ways in which
to make our joy
everlasting and hence overpower our sorrows.
Yes, in reality life
tends to be both sweet and bitter, and on this
we would not disagree,
but why do we often focus on our calamities
on end? Where an hour
is enough to grieve over something,
hours on end are spent
grieving. Why?
I
realise that sorrow and anguish enter our hearts without
seeking permission, but
for each door of sadness that opens
there are a thousand
means of shutting it, and these are what we
will expound here.
Allow
me to bring your attention to another matter: How
often is it that we see
those people who are loved by everyone?
Many long to meet them
and be in their company, but do you
not wish to be one of
them? Why be content at being amazed by
such people all the
time? Why not try to be amazing yourself?
Here
we will learn how to be amazing.
Why was it that when
your cousin spoke at the gathering,
everyone listened to
him attentively? Why were they amazed at
his manners of speech?
Why was it that when you spoke, they
all turned away and
began to talk amongst themselves? Why was
that? You may be more
well-informed, better qualified and possess
a higher status than
him. How then did he manage to get all
the attention and you
failed?
Why
is it that one father is dearly loved by his children who
love to greet him and
accompany him wherever he goes, while
another father begs his
children to accompany him while they
keep making all kinds
of excuses to avoid doing so?
Are they not both
fathers? Then why the difference?
Here we will learn how
to enjoy life, know the various techniques
to attract people,
influence them, persevere with their
faults, deal with
people with bad manners, and much, much more.
So, welcome!
A word...
Success is not to
discover what others like, it is to acquire
and practise the skills
that help one gain their love.
Thnks Dr.Arifi
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